Here are three perspectives on the subject:.
https://www.janefriedman.com/memoir/
https://writeitsideways.com/telling-the-truth-in-memoir-more-than-just-facts/
https://www.writersdigest.com/craft-technique/when-is-lying-in-memoir-acceptable-3-key-issues
https://www.janefriedman.com/memoir/
https://writeitsideways.com/telling-the-truth-in-memoir-more-than-just-facts/
https://www.writersdigest.com/craft-technique/when-is-lying-in-memoir-acceptable-3-key-issues